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Sunday 14 May 2006

Personal Priorities

Here’s a riddle. Let’s imagine you have five activities you could be doing right now. You can’t do all five things at once, so you have to order them in terms of your personal priorities. Here are the five activities:

  • Working with your shiny new computer
  • Buying shoes
  • Watching Star Trek
  • Making love with a person whom you adore and desire
  • Catching up with an old, beloved friend or family member

What would be your priority order?

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Posted by:   Molly | 3:46 pm |

108 Responses to “Personal Priorities”

  1. Dean Edwards Says:

    4,1,5,3,2

  2. Rimantas Says:

    5,4,1,-,-

  3. karmatosed Says:

    1, 5, 4, 2, 3 and I now feel sad so will go in the corner.

  4. Richard York Says:

    4,1,5,2,3 …who watches Star Trek? ;-)

  5. Lea de Groot Says:

    4, 1, 3, 5, 2
    Ummm… sometimes I wonder about my priorities ;)

  6. Carolyn Says:

    Maybe I’m not as geeky as I should be, because I haven’t watched Star Trek since before Ethan Marcotte was born.
    Maybe I’m not really a girl, because I don’t care about shoes.
    Do you actually have to know the person in #4? Or, can it be one of those sexy standardistas we discussed recently? (Note to self: Don’t let husband ever visit molly.com)

    Sad but true answer: If the person in #4 or #5 wanted contact of the type described, and it happened just at the moment that the shiny new computer arrived at the door…….my first choice would be #1. But I’d be yelling, “Just a sec! I’ll be right there! I swear! Don’t start without me!”

  7. Anonymous for obvious reasons Says:

    4, 4, 4, 4, 4

  8. Ben Gray Says:

    4, 1, 2, 5, 3 … and then some more 4. heh.

  9. Benson Says:

    3,4,5,1,2

  10. Hyeonseok Shin Says:

    4, 5, 1, 3, 2

  11. tiffany Says:

    1,1,4,1,1. if “star trek” were “a ‘twilight zone’ marathon”, it might make it to the fourth slot on the list. my friends and i stay in touch through e-mail, so i can play with the shiny new toy *and* keep in touch. shoe shopping is too traumatic for me to make it a priority of any kind (i have huge-ish feet and picky tastes).

    honestly, i’m not sure #4 would even be on my radar screen if i had a new computer, but i refuse to admit i’m that much of a nerd.

  12. nortypig Says:

    41532 - which is the same as Dean Edwards. I could skip 2 though and have another 4 if its more convenient. :)

  13. nortypig Says:

    ps. i vote whiskey should replace shoes and maybe 1 5 and 3. Of course it could preclude any chance at 4 but i’m getting older and get more 4 than whiskey anyway…

    pps. yes i like whiskey :)

  14. Adam Schilling Says:

    5, 4, 1, 3, 2 … unless it’s a MacBook Pro, then: 5, 1, 4, 3, 2 applies. ;-)

    Why do I get the feeling there’s more to this than meets the eye? Somewhere, someone is saying “O’kay, o’kay Molly - you’ve made your point!” (grin!)

  15. Finding Carolyn Truthful & Hysterical Says:

    I have to agree with Carolyn above. “I’ll be RIGHT WITH YOU, I promise!” (startup chime in the background…)

  16. Ben Buchanan Says:

    4, 5, 1, i never do 3, and 2 is never *my* priority it’s hers! ;)

    the inner geek says “just how new and shiny is that new computer? are we talking out-of-the-box-today new?”

  17. Birgit Says:

    …and it even asks “what software is installed yet?”

    I think it would be 1,4,5,2,3 (but 4 and 5 could be swapped). I am not too much for shoes, and I never watch Star Trek.

    @Carolyn
    hehe :)

  18. Dave Scriven Says:

    4,5,3,1 and 2.

    However, if Star Trek happened to be on in the background while making love I wouldn’t complain ;)

    Shiny new things just don’t do it for me anymore.

  19. Mike Whitehurst Says:

    4 * Making love with a person whom you adore and desire
    5 * Catching up with an old, beloved friend or family member
    1 * Working with your shiny new computer
    3 * Watching Star Trek
    2 * Buying shoes

  20. jr Says:

    4, allways…
    love is never waisted time…

  21. bruce Says:

    God, what a load of unimaginative losers. With a bit of creativity and some planning, I regularly manage to do all of them simultaneously.

  22. Louise Says:

    Easy:

    5 - because they’d get annoyed otherwise (but all the time I’d be thinking about 1).

    1 - because it’s a shiny new computer!!! This would be in first place if I didn’t mind upsetting my friends’n'relations.

    3 - but only if it’s ‘The Next Generation’ (Jean-Luc Picard…!). This would possibly move up to second place if it was the new Dr. Who we’ve been enjoying over here in the UK, instead of Star Trek.

    [… everything else in my life …]

    2 - I’ll have to replace my shoes sometime or other. This would NEVER be a priority though.

    4 - because it’s never actually going to happen.

  23. Daniel Lynch Says:

    Buying shoes, buying shoes, buying shoes, porn, porn.

  24. Steven Tew Says:

    4,1,5,4,4 - it’s been a long time since I watched Star Trek, but it still sounds more fun than buying shoes. ;-)

  25. Jules Says:

    4,5,1,2,3

  26. Le Plume Says:

    See Ben Buchanan answer supra, including the post scriptum.

    Nonetheless, I do think that a movie showing “bruce” screwing an old friend in a shoe store while his new laptop plays Star Trek on the shelf would make an awsome viral video.

    Cheers from across the Ocean!

  27. Gareth Says:

    4,1,5,3,2

    I wonder if 2 would have lost so badly had you said sandals? :-)

  28. Cryo Says:

    1 and 4 at the same time, I just need to find a vibrating mouse!

  29. Ryan Says:

    4, 1, 5, 2, 3 (that last one’s only if it’s required, I hate Star Trek)

  30. web Says:

    4, 5, 1, 3, 2

    The “Truly how geeky are you” test?

  31. bruce Says:

    Hey Le Plume, I’ve got my video camera. I’ll meet you in the shoeshop ;-)

  32. Faruk Ateş Says:

    Man, 4, 1, 5, 3, 2 for sure!

    One can never make love too much.

  33. Morgan Roderick Says:

    * Making love with a person whom you adore and desire
    * Catching up with an old, beloved friend or family member
    * Working with your shiny new computer
    * Buying shoes
    * Watching Star Trek

  34. Drew Shiel Says:

    4, 5, 1, 3, 2. Happy with those choices, too.

  35. Remco Vermeer Says:

    4,1,5,3,2 aswell. Although i think option 1 should really be:
    Playing World of Warcraft with your shiny new computer :-)

  36. Linus Says:

    Sadly, your test does not apply to graduate students. It requires strange things called “imagination” and “personal priorities.” Is this some sort of foreign mumbo-jumbo?

  37. LoathRevolver Says:

    Ah sex… Lil’ Miss Popular. 4, 1, 5, 2, 3

  38. Ian Muir Says:

    I’d have to say 4 then 5. After that would be determined by which Star Trek. I’m fond of TNG, but most people who were around for the original consider that pure heresy.

    I’m actually kind of disturbed about how many people would rather play with a computer than talk with family in friends. I’m not trying to be too preachy, but it just strikes me as odd. Maybe I’d think differently if I had a shiny new computer.

  39. Arne Kriedemann Says:

    4,5,1,3,2:

    Sex, uh, making love comes first, of course!
    I miss an old friend of mine, who vanished some time ago, so this is the right priority.
    I love shiny, new computers and to work with them…
    and to watch Star Trek (I like TNG most, “Data’s day” for example, or dialogues like this:”No, you don’t understand! I didn’t kill some of the Husnok or the crew of the ship(s), I killed all of them, 2.5 billion (take another high number)!” or “THERE ARE FOUR LIGHTS!”: Brilliant!)
    I’m a guy: my shoes are still good, so why buy new ones?

  40. Maxine Sherrin Says:

    “You can’t do all 5 things at once”? Molly! I beg to differ. You’ve not heard of Continuous Partial Attention? With the power of the internet I think even throwing 2 into into the mix is more than possible!

  41. Paul Menard Says:

    4,1,4,5,4 (repeat!)

    I live in Austin. We don’t need shoes. As for Star Trek, I can do without. Guess I’ll need to turn in my Uber Geek membership card.

  42. Matt Robin Says:

    4,5,1,2,3

    I definitely put 4 and 5 above any of the others (call me ‘old-fashioned!’)

  43. Diane Soini Says:

    This quiz is very interesting and all, but I can’t help thinking there’s an even better story behind it.

  44. Corbid Says:

    If one is dextrous enough, couldn’t one do all 5 at once? On the shiny new computer,one could buy shoes & catch up with a friend whilst watching Star Wars and beginning to instigate foreplay…screw prioritizing, multitasking is the new prioritizing!

  45. Dave Scriven Says:

    You never said what your ordering would be Molly?

  46. Manny Says:

    4, 5, 1, 2, 3

    Lets face it, I know what I like to do.

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  48. Molly Says:

    Okay, my order goes:

    4
    5
    2
    1
    3

    :* mmmm

  49. Daniel Lynch Says:

    I’d pick exactly that order too if the first two were realistic :)

    Well, I’d never watch Star Trek voluntarily, have no money for new shoes, and don’t have no shiny computer (rather a five year old one). But still..

  50. stephen Says:

    Why does it not shock me that the response to this question is so low?
    Forty eight people in one week, whereas any other question you could have asked would have got you ten times as many people in that same time!
    Or was that the true point? Not to find out how people would respond, but if they would.

  51. WD Milner Says:

    I have to admit to old fashioned as well 5,4,3,1,2

    Only reason #2 is still there is I mentally substituted fine soft leather walking Wellingtons for “shoes” :-)

  52. Dee Says:

    45132 but priorities are fluid - they could be different next week. I kind of like the idea of substituting Baileys for shoes too.

  53. YaaL Says:

    4, 5, 1, 2, 3.
    Or 4, 5, 3, 1, 2 if we substitute ST for a good book.

  54. ndobiecka Says:

    Initially 4,5,1,3,(4 again insead of 2 cos I hate buying shoes)

    :D

  55. Silencio Says:

    I like eggs.

  56. Silencio Says:

    Sometimes I like to eat eggs, with Ketchup.

  57. Silencio Says:

    Sometimes I like Eggs, With Kethcup, with Bacon, on the crispier side.

  58. Jem Says:

    1, 4, 5, 3, 2

    Can’t resist the offer of playing with a new computer.. ;)

  59. h Says:

    414141, please

  60. janet Says:

    I need specifics!

    First, priority order in my idealized world…

    4 – If said person is one of my real life or even TV crushes (I’m looking at you, Goran Visnjic), is currently unattached, happens to be an exciting and/or considerate lover, and I’m guaranteed that I won’t have to spend the next six months of my life in angst-ridden phone conversations after said love-making, then it’s definitely #1 on my priority list.

    5 – Old friends and family live all over the globe – I’d love the chance to sit down and chat like old times with a friend or two I haven’t seen for a couple of years. A good friend, a wonderful location, perhaps a bottle of wine – heck, I might be able to have #5 and #4 in one fell swoop, if things don’t work out with Goran…

    1 – Is this a MacBookPro, or a Power Mac G5 with a 30-inch Apple Cinema HD display? Is it fully loaded with current MacrAdobe software for my design needs? Heck, I’ll even take it with a 23-inch Cinema display – that’s still bigger than my TV.

    2 – Are you buying? Can I have two pairs? Then shoe-shopping it is…

    3 – Yes – I was a TNG fan, and wouldn’t mind watching a decent episode again, but it’s not a high priority for me. Now if you had said a Futurama marathon, to be topped off by the new straight-to-DVD Futurama movies that it’s been rumored are in the works, then it would definitely take priority over shoe-shopping…

    Now for my priorities in a far-from-idealized world…

    4 – Someone I adore and desire? Even if said person’s not as into me, and will probably bring a lot of “dramah” into my life? I’d still make it top priority, probably because I’m currently unattached and it’s been awhile…

    5- It’s always good to connect with another human being…

    2 – In a far-from-ideal world, I’d at least want to get out of the house occasionally, and I still need shoes.

    3 – By default, in this list watching Star Trek becomes priority #4, unless it’s Enterprise, in which case it goes to the bottom of my list.

    1-If my shiny new computer is a cheap-o WinTel box that I received as a gift or a prize (because I likely wouldn’t buy a shiny new Windows machine for home), and it doesn’t come loaded with design software, then it’s just not that exciting for me. Granted, if it’s connected, I can at least check my usual online haunts and/or do some web work, but I’ll be pissed if I have to spend part of my day on hold waiting for tech support…

    Aaahh, life is full of possibilities…

  61. Chris Flick Says:

    See, I’m with Bruce. The imaginative sole would find a way to multi-task and do all the things at the same time…

    For example, the girlfriend would be a shoe salesperson so it would be possible to make love and “talk shoe business” at the same time…

    “Ohhh baby, whisper that desciption of those hot pink pumps in my ear one more time… OOOOOOOOO, yeah!”

    And, while whispering “hot, dirty shoe talk” to my shoe salesperson girlfriend, I’d be downloading the entire Star Trek DVD set on my shiny new laptop sitting on my nightstand by the bed. And, during, um… “breaks”, I’d be talking to an old college roommate on my Motorola HS805 Wireless Bluetooth Headset as I checked on the download process of my Star Trek DVDs on my shiny new laptop.

    :-)

    -Chris

  62. Molly Says:

    Now listen folks. I didn’t say it wasn’t possible to do all five at once. I said you can’t, at least according to this riddle.

    So while all of you who are trying to figure out imaginative and clever ways to do as many of the five simultaneously, well, you’re missing the point. You have to actually prioritize. I’m sorry, I realize it’s shocking, difficult and perhaps even painful.

    Sorta like that new pair of shoes I just bought . . . ;-)

  63. Julie Romanowski Says:

    4, 1, 5, 2, 3

    I’m not sure which one I dislike more, buying shoes or watching Star Trek.

  64. Lisa Says:

    4 - 5 - 2 - 3- 1

  65. Sergio Says:

    4, 1, 5, 3, 2. Not sure what this says about my personal care (buying shoes? Who the hell buys shoes?).

    I’d have said that friends came before the computer, but having a shiny macbook pro in front of me, and having done somethig very similar to telling friends to stuff it while I play with it just yesterday… that might be a tad hypocritical.

    Love comes first, though. Sex, even. Definitely.

  66. cight Says:

    4.5.1.3.2

    I always get depressed buying shoes, they never have quite what I want.

  67. dg Says:

    4,1,4,1,4

  68. Liz Waldner Says:

    4 & 1 :)

    but you so need a ‘drink coffee’ in there somewhere :)

  69. scott Says:

    Which Star Trek?

    Can’t you have sex and watch Voyager at the same time?

  70. Anne Says:

    1,4,5,2,3 Yeah, my priorities are set! :)

  71. Matt Says:

    4,5,1,3 and 2.

  72. hostel Says:

    4-1-3-2-5

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